How to Handle GMAT Stress Without Freaking Out

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Manhattan Prep GMAT Blog - How to Handle GMAT Stress Without Freaking Out by Elaine Loh

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Have you spent months studying for the GMAT? Taken a class? Done private tutoring? Do you have an error log? Do you have a strict study schedule? Have you done everything absolutely right and the looming test is still FREAKING YOU OUT?!?!

GMAT stress is totally normal, so please stop beating yourself up for feeling it. It’s okay to have anxiety about this test—the GMAT is actually a pretty big deal. But, let me ask you, why would you not prepare for and deal with GMAT stress just the way you prepare for and deal with Quant and Verbal problems? Meaning, you can’t just show up on test day, take some deep breaths, and expect that the test stress you’ve been feeling for months will magically go away. You need to do mentality work along with your studies of special triangles and grammar rules.

Full disclosure: I’ve always been the type of person who thought that affirmations were hokey. When I tried to meditate, I’d fall asleep—or be really stressed out about wasting time. I always believed that if you just put your mind to it, you could conquer anything. Now, I realize that I used to equate my “mind” with my “hard work.” These are two separate things entirely!! You’ve been doing the hard work of the GMAT, but the mind needs equal attention.

Everything I’m going to write after this is what I tell any student who asks me for help with GMAT stress. I will tell you, I have seen REAL DIFFERENCES between the people who do this and the ones who don’t. I haven’t conducted a scientific study or anything, but anecdotally, it seems to work—even for those who don’t believe in being able to change their mindsets. You just have to fake it til you make it.

Manhattan Prep GMAT Blog - How to Handle GMAT Stress Without Freaking Out by Elaine Loh

So, here we go.

The first thing I recommend is checking out Hal Elrod’s The Miracle Morning. I know, the title sounds cheesy! But bear with me. In fact, you don’t even have to read the whole book, you busy, stressed-out person. You can listen to the 15-minute Blink of the book. (Do the free trial of the Blinkist app and listen to a brief summary of the book.) There are six things you are supposed to do every morning. I’m going to talk about two of them. I’ll leave it to you to learn about the other four.

Meditation

Make it a daily practice. The good news is that you don’t need to do it very long to feel the benefits of meditation. Seriously, Google a 3-minute meditation. Do it every morning, and maybe before bed if you can remember to do it. If you want to be hardcore, do this 15 minute meditation created by fellow Manhattan Prep GMAT instructor Logan Thompson.

Affirmation

Again, do it every day. How do you do affirmations? Easy. Write down five affirmations (e.g., “I am better at Quant than I think.” “My GMAT stress actually helps me perform better.” “Sentence corrections are my jam!!”). Repeat these affirmations out loud every day, once in the morning, once at night. You can stick them on Post-Its on your bathroom mirror. Put them wherever you’ll see them and be reminded to say them out loud. Don’t worry about feeling silly.

This is not part of the Miracle Morning, but I would also write down three ways to deal with stress during the test (e.g., “When I get stressed, I will close my eyes, take 3 deep cleansing breaths, and count backwards from 10. Only then will I get back to the problem on the screen.”) Read these over at least twice a week. Maybe when you’re looking over your error log!!

And that’s it. A few simple minutes a day, and your score improves. Don’t believe me? Check out this study that found that two weeks of mindfulness practice correlated with a 16% increase in score on the GRE. This mentality work is not just to feel better, it is in service of your score. So do it. (And feel better too!)

Don’t like this method? Check these other blogs on handling test stress:

https://www.manhattanprep.com/gmat/articles/managing-stress-techniques.cfm

https://www.manhattanprep.com/gmat/articles/managing-stress-tips.cfm

What’s your secret to beating GMAT stress? Let us know in the comments! ?


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Manhattan Prep GMAT Blog - Elaine Loh Bio ImageElaine Loh is a Manhattan Prep instructor based in Los Angeles, California. She graduated from Brown University with a degree in psychology and a desire to teach others. She can’t get enough of standardized tests and has been a test prep tutor and teacher for over half her life. Check out Elaine’s upcoming GMAT courses here.